How do you identify a good wife material? This are the things you look at when selecting your baby mama. There are also some things that people assume and they end up marrying somebody who will bring you problems forever. Internet has currently affected many people of modern generation. People have forgotten their obligations and adopted cultures that have no back grounds. Here, I will strongly and in details highlight some of the very important things to look at when selecting a wfe material.
First,you should not get married to any woman simply because your parents have liked her,or you think that she will make your friends happy,or even because she has your child, no,if you do that,you will end up crying and dropping endless tears in future. First of all,beauty of a woman is not in her looks. When choosing a wife material, looks should be the last thing to look at. A good woman is described by her character, not external but internal character. You as a man should take enough time to study the characters of the woman you intend to marry. Some people pretend to be good when you meet for the first time,but as the time goes by,she terns into something else because she thinks that you cant send her packing.
Know the background of the woman you are marrying, ask yourself, how does she answer her mother? Is she a careless and lazy girl? Does she value house cleanness? One of the primary goal of any woman should be cleanness and keeping her house well organized. If you see that your girlfriend is reluctant on matters of cleanness, just send her away because that will never change,don't expect her to change simply because you married her. Some behaviors cannot be changed. Some ladies say " You married me this way,and I can't change" This is one of the most devilish slogan that I personally hate with passion. Is your girlfriend open on everything during your first days? If she hides most things like her family,social media,diseases, etc,just keep miles away from her. Make sure that your girl doesn't cheat because if you assume, you might die before your time is due. Just be very careful when choosing a wife material. Don't look at the face or behind because you will regret it in future. Mwanamke ni tabia, sura tuwachie mbuzi